For Clients and Staff:
For Clients and Staff:
As a parent, one of the most painful feelings is losing control—when you feel like you can no longer manage your child’s behavior and the trust between you begins to break. You may feel helpless, and your child may feel misunderstood.
At Legacy Counseling LLC, a trusted ARC Grow provider in New Jersey, we know that rebuilding trust and restoring caregiver confidence is at the very heart of the ARC Grow program. Here’s how we help families through in-home mental health services for children.
Many caregivers have been told their child is “defiant,” “manipulative,” or “out of control.” These labels create shame and distance. ARC Grow offers a new perspective: all behavior makes sense when understood through the lens of trauma and stress.
Trauma doesn’t only come from big events—it can stem from chronic stress, instability, or witnessing harm. Children exposed to these experiences develop survival strategies that can look like defiance but are actually efforts to feel safe.
By helping you see behavior through this lens, ARC Grow shifts frustration into empathy. Suddenly, your child isn’t fighting you—they’re fighting to feel secure. This is the first step in rebuilding trust.
In your first ARC Grow session, you’ll begin building a toolbox of modulation strategies—practical skills like deep breathing, grounding activities, or listening to music. These tools help you regulate your own emotions. When your child sees you staying calm, they learn to co-regulate and begin trusting your ability to guide them.
We also introduce the family pause button—a simple gesture or word anyone in the family can use when emotions run high. This creates space, restores calm, and teaches children that it’s safe to step back when overwhelmed. Parents often describe this as one of the most empowering tools they’ve ever used.
While our clinicians bring years of training, you are the expert on your child. ARC Grow is built on partnership. At Legacy Counseling, we collaborate with you to identify your family’s strengths, values, and goals. By honoring your role, we empower you to lead your family’s healing journey, supported by our guidance and expertise.
At Legacy Counseling, we bring ARC Grow into the place it matters most—your home. Through PerformCare’s Children’s System of Care (CSOC), families across New Jersey can access ARC Grow, Intensive In-Community (IIC) services, Behavioral Assistance, Parent Coaching, and BPS assessments.
This in-home approach allows healing to happen where daily life unfolds, ensuring tools and strategies are practiced in real time.
ARC Grow is more than a program—it’s a path to rebuilding trust, regaining confidence, and creating a calmer, more connected family life.
At Legacy Counseling LLC, we’re proud to serve as a trusted ARC Grow provider in New Jersey. If you’re ready to explore in-home mental health services for your child, contact us today by calling us at 732-672-9051 or filling out our contact form below to get started.